The Great Island Debate

So I ran through several ways of approaching my husband on the issue of getting the bigger island.  Well while I was deliberating on how best to approach him the change order from our SR came through email- BOTH of our emails.  Needless to say he was not happy.  

Now here comes the argument.  He said we both wanted the standard island.  I had to remind him that I wanted it and that he said we didn't need it.  He then informed me that by signing I agreed (mind you it was standard so there was nothing really to sign).  He wants the open space for "whatever".  

What's the "whatever"?- I don't know. GRRR! 

I want the extra counter space and cabinet space (after stuffing everything into 2 main cabinets I don't want to have to stuff ever again).  His thinking that anything over the 2 main cabinets should be good enough.  AHHHHH!  Mars and Venus I tell you, Mars and Venus.  

I do know one thing about me- if I can't convince him to sign the change order, I will hold a grudge for a very long time.  It won't be pretty.   BTW- I did apologize for not coming to him before I started my crusade but I think I already knew this battle was about to go down.